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The pattern of planets in this New Moon chart falls into
three groups:
1 - Sun/Moon in Gemini in positive
relationship with Saturn in
Leo.
In Gemini, the Sun and Moon are offering a new look at communication,
which is focussed this month on whether we are speaking from
our ego identity, or from our heart, our centre self. The
point of communication in a relationship is to let the others
know what is true for us, so that they know who they are relating
to – just as we need to be receptive to their truth,
so we can respond when speaking to them. Without this honesty,
and receptivity to it, we are not really relating at all.
If we will express our truth for the sake of relating, even
when we lack confidence or feel vulnerable, this chart shows
we will be healing our relationships (Sun/Moon trine Chiron).
The Nodes of the Moon are still pointing from Libra to Aries,
indicating that diplomacy is a necessary part of achieving
what we really want to do in the world. So this month is not
about demanding that we get what we want, but perhaps about
just communicating our true desires appropriately in a gentle
way.
2 - Venus in Aries challenging
Mars in Cancer.
Perhaps our difficulty this month might stem from wanting
to tell it how it is up front, and finding that it comes out
more emotional than we meant, so getting into an argument.
It’s often the case that when I dare to say what I really
mean, I find out how much I care. I discover that I’ve
been holding down the emotion, maybe for fear of upsetting
someone, or worrying what others might think. So, when I’ve
expressed my truth, I find myself trying to explain my emotions!
I find generally it’s better not to try to explain –
it becomes an attempt to justify how I feel, and emotions
don’t need to be justified. They just are what they
are, and something triggers them. Also, if I express hurt
or anger to someone, it would be natural for them to react
emotionally, and then we are both in it. What helps is kindness
to our emotional self so that it feels heard, and extending
that kindness to others with sensitivity because, this month,
we are all likely to feel the emotional energy of Mars in
Cancer stirring our stomachs.
3 - Mercury in Gemini
On a verbal communication level, this month, we have the
Gemini flexibility to assist our quick understanding, and
adjusting to what we find. Mercury, our mental energy, is
flowing well with Neptune, our intuition - our sensitivity
to others will be well enhanced. The major part of good communication
is listening, and when we listen well, we are likely to ‘know’
what a person is feeling. Conversely, trying to hide our real
emotions is doomed to failure this month. Yet blurting out
how we feel could stop a conversation in its tracks! (Mercury
is also in a stand-off with Uranus in Pisces, sudden emotional
reactions).
These are the three planetary groups - the test for us this
month may be simply to express ourselves honestly, while remaining
sensitive to others. The great thing is that the pattern suggests
our efforts will be rewarded by clearing away much of the
emotional baggage we have been hanging onto (Jupiter in Scorpio
forcing the issue) without having to burn our relationship
bridges!
Something to bear in mind:
‘Projection’ is a principle which helps understanding.
When we project our negativity into the world, we find the
world appearing to be negative to us. For example, if I walk
out of a group because I think they are rejecting me, it helps
me if I can see that I am rejecting the group. And again:
if I notice that everyone is angry with me today, I can check
to see if I’m giving myself a hard time, and then check
if perhaps I am angry about something myself that I hadn’t
noticed.
The thing to bear in mind, if you have worked with this
principle, is that most other people haven’t. That doesn’t
make them stupid, or mean you should explain. When someone
is having trouble with their world or somebody in it, it’s
not always helpful to tell them how they are causing it. It
is always worth trying to see what the situation looks like
to them, and appreciating their emotions about it first. In
an emotional state, we are usually not receptive to principles,
however accurately they describe things. Principles are for
the mind to consider coolly at some later moment. With so
much Gemini energy this month, we may all find ourselves see-sawing
between strong emotions and cool understanding. Both physical
exercise and creative expression help soothe the emotional
flow, and can allow understanding to rise naturally. (Gemini
is about physical movement, and also movement between the
logical and the creative in our thinking.)
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Neptune square Sedna
There is another celestial situation, through this April,
May and June, that may be stirring the depths beneath all
our surface moods. Neptune is squaring Sedna for the first
time; the retrograde second pass will be in February 07, and
the third and last will be through the last months of 2007.
I have written about Sedna’s story in my website under
my ‘Current Comments - past’; but in a nutshell,
so far she’s the furthest body found in our Solar System,
very slow moving, 19 ½ Taurus right now, the Inuit
goddess of the depths of the sea who is immensely powerful.
Wales and dolphins express her, and yet she is said to harbour
great resentment against men who have not treated her with
respect. This could certainly represent an aspect of the feminine
psyche in us all!
Neptune square Sedna could be showing up in our relationship
with the Earth’s upheavals and climatic changes, where
we either blame humanity and feel bad, or blame Nature and
feel powerless. Rather than blaming, we could do with accepting
the facts, and taking responsibility for what we can do to
sensitively balance up.
This square could also show up in each individual as a sense
of apprehension, as though hidden trouble was brewing somewhere
deep in your life. The square relationship between the two
planets indicates an over-sensitivity that leads to misinterpretation.
We need to take especial care that we do not speak or act
out of resentment or blame. As Jupiter is retrograde from
March to July this year, it is natural for there to be a slowing
of growth, and even definite hold-ups or apparent blocks.
We need to allow for this pause in forward movement, and not
to assume we’ve done something wrong. Focus on taking
care of what you have created by allowing changes and improvements,
and accept the divine timing of the forward push from July
onwards. There is no need for anxiety.
Meditation for this
New Moon in Gemini
Be comfortable and breathe for a while, and
then
consider why you communicate, what do you
want to achieve by it?
What do you consider are the reasons different
people say things to you?
What do you mean by the word ‘relationship’
- connection? possession? responsibility?
and
how do you ‘relate’ to the different
people in your life?
Let this be a contemplation; there is no need
for judgement.
Now breathe into your heart.
Allow the important relationships in your
life to rise, and
notice how you ‘feel’ about each
of those people, rather than what you ‘think’
about them.
(Depending on your nature, there may or may
not be a difference.)
Know that you are held and loved immeasurably
in the wholeness of life,
whatever you think, or feel, or do.
Notice how you habitually think about yourself,
and allow a kindly feeling for yourself to
grow in your heart.
In each relationship in your life,
experiment with checking how you feel before
you communicate what you think.
Practice communicating through touch, through
posture and facial expression,
through respectful listening, and sound without
words.
Communicate kindly with everything around
you,
and give thanks for the gift of its presence
in your life.
Communicate always from your heart.
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